捨

捨~是做人的最高境界 

我用前半生的時間, 努力去爭取、去擁有、去建立....
我侍親盡孝、用情至深...以為, 這是做人的最高境界。

做人的最高境界, 原來是...在於我巳努力做了這一切之後....都能捨。

我的至親至愛, 我可以極力去愛他们, 但我從不擁有他们的生命, 隨聚隨散....要能捨。

名 =虛榮、讚譽...如煙雲過眼, 從不實在...能捨。

一切金錢、身外物...我活一天, 暫借我用一天.....能捨。

我的青春、我的身體....我不捨它, 它也捨我...能捨。

自我 = 我執... 就這個東東攪出我這一生來,
早日全捨掉, 早日還原我的本來面目。

【 瓶子與改變的智慧 】

【 瓶子與改變的智慧 】

培訓班上，企業界的精英們正襟危坐，等著聽管理教授的關於企業運營的報告。

門開處，教授走進來，左手提著個包，右手擎著個脹得圓鼓鼓的氣球。

⋯⋯ 精英們很奇怪，但還是有人拿出筆和本子，準備記下教授精闢的分析和坦誠的忠告。

「噢，不，不！」教授說道：「你們不用記，只要用眼睛看就足夠了，我的報告將非常簡單。」

教授從包裏拿出一隻開口很小的瓶子放在桌上，然後指著氣球對大家說：「誰能告訴我怎樣把這只氣球裝到這只瓶子裏去？當然，你不能這樣，碰！」教授滑稽地做了個氣球爆炸的手勢。

眾人面面相覷，都不知教授葫蘆裏賣的什麼藥。

終於，一位精明幹練的女士說：「我想，也許可以改變它的形狀。」

「改變它的形狀？嗯，很好，你可以為我們演示一下嗎？」

「當然。」女士走到台前，拿起氣球小心翼翼地捏弄。她想利用橡膠柔軟可塑的特點，把氣球一點點塞到瓶子裏。

但這遠遠不像她想的那麼簡單，很快她發現自己的努力是徒勞的，於是她放下手裏的氣球，道：「很遺憾，我承認我的想法行不通。」

「還有人要試試嗎？」沒人回答。

「那麼好吧，讓我來試一下。」教授道。

他拿起氣球，三下二下解開氣球嘴上的帶子，“嗤”地一聲，氣球變成一個軟耷耷的小袋子。

教授把這個小袋子塞到瓶子裏，只留下吹氣的口兒在外面，然後用嘴銜住，用力吹氣。很快，氣球鼓起來，脹滿在瓶子裏。

教授再用帶子把氣球嘴兒紮緊。「瞧，我改變了一下方法，問題解決了。」教授露出了滿意的微笑。

教授轉過身，拿起筆在寫字板上寫了個大大的“變”字，說：「當你遇到一個難題，解決它很困難，你可以改變你的方法。」

他指指自己的腦袋，「思想的改變，現在你們知道它有多麼重要了，這就是我今天要說明的。」

精英們開始交頭接耳。教授按按雙手，示意大家安靜，然後說：「現在，我們做第二個遊戲。」


他的目光將眾人掃視一遍，指著一個帶眼鏡的男子說，「這位先生，你願意配合我完成這個遊戲嗎？」

「願意。」戴眼鏡的先生走到台前。

教授說：「現在請你用這只瓶子做出五個動作，什麼動作都可以，但不能重複。好，請開始。」

帶眼鏡的男子拿起瓶子、放下瓶子、扳倒瓶子、豎起瓶子、移動瓶子，五個動作瞬間完成。

教授點點頭，道：「請你再做五個，但不要與剛才做過的重複。」

帶眼鏡的男子又很輕易地完成了。

「請再做五個。」······

等教授第五次發出同樣的指令時，帶眼鏡的男子已滿頭大汗，狼狽不堪。

教授第六次說出「請再做五個」時，帶眼鏡的男子突然大吼一聲：「不！我寧願摔了這瓶子也不想再讓它折磨我的神經了！」

帶眼鏡的男子把瓶子重重地放在臺上，憤憤地走回到自己的座位。

精英們笑了，教授也笑了，他面向大家：「你們看到了，‘變’有多難！連續不斷地‘變’幾乎使這位先生發瘋，可你們比我還清楚，商戰中‘變’有多麼重要。我知道那時你們就是發瘋也要選擇‘變’，因為不變比發瘋還要糟，那意味著死亡。」

現在，精英們對這場別開生面的報告品出點味兒來了，他們微笑地互相交換著目光。

停了片刻，教授又開口了：「現在，還有最後一個問題，這是個簡單的問題。」

他從包裏拿出一隻開口很大的瓶子放到臺上，指著那只裝氣球的瓶子說：「誰能把它放到這只新瓶子裏去？」

精英們都看到這只新瓶子並沒有原來那個瓶子大，直接裝進去是根本不可能的。

但這樣簡單的問題難不住頭腦機敏的精英們，一個高個子中年男人走過去，拿起瓶子用力向地上擲去，瓶子碎了，中年人拾起一塊塊殘片裝入新瓶子。

教授點頭表示稱許，精英們沒人對中年人的辦法感到意外。

這時教授說：「先生們，這個問題很簡單，只需改變瓶子的狀態就能完成。我想你們都想到了這個答案。但實際上我要告訴你們的是一項改變最大的極限是什麼。瞧。」

教授舉起手中的瓶子「就是這樣，最大的極限是完全改變舊有狀態，徹底打碎它！」

講臺下面鴉雀無聲，精英們琢磨著教授話中的深意。

教授收拾好自己的包，說：「感謝在座的諸位，我的報告完了。」然後他飄然而去。

to Rex

Hi Rex

i had read ur blog

and i know u more after read it

alot of things

is uncontrol

the reality is cruel

i cnt say ur situation are better than me or worst than me

but i believe

we can make it

we live in our dream

rmb this

honestly say

is hard to find someone

like u

as a friend

bcs no one know the reality of world

only the one who faced it 

anyway is 

nice to meet u

i always tell myself this

成功与失败只是一线之差

if u dare to step out

it can be success

but

if u stop u will fail forever

let's bygones be bygones

tmr always there

jia u

a wish b4 30 years old must achieve

^^

from: Doreen

428

my 21st birthday party at home

just a small party to let everyone know

im getting old

>.<

i hope u 're the one beside me

sadly u cant attend here

i got 5 auntie and 2 uncles

but on that day 

only 3 aunties came

i dun know i shud be happy or shud be sad

anywhere

to most important thing

is

my parents happy

this is my b'day cake

thanks to my elder bro and little sis

for ordering this cake

it's coffee taste

(i like cheese cake most)

not everyone like cheese cake

so i ask them to buy a normal cake

so everyone can eat

bcs of this

they specially bought me a slice of cheese cake

very nice cheese cake

so

i just passed a simple 21st birthday party at home

now waiting surprise from my lovely classmates

hehehe

this is some gift from my auntie and fren

happy~~

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Melaka one day trip

with Knox

snap using my arc s

hehe

at the same time

we bersih too

so crowded

so fun

so excited

anyway

428

a memorable day for me

by: Doreen

Ego's fault

top student

how embarrassing

when u reject my work infront of everyone

i'm speechless since u say the design look flat

i admit i did it without a plan and arrangement

thats y it look so normal

because of ur reject

i did better design

                                   left-rejected                                                              right-after reject work

maybe win for me 

not even is important but

is only aim in my life

赢不是一切，而是唯一。   

want to win

want to be the top

want to be the outstanding

is what i live for

my 20 years

was amazing

the road full with big rocks

the sea full with big waves

the crowd full with stingers

the family full with tears

the friends full with fakers

the school full with liars

and i keep tell myself this

but 

in my deep in heart full with ego

nobody can accept my ego

until today

is huge

even my parents cant take it sometimes

they keep ask me dun think too much and stress myself up

but

the stress never been in my world

never and ever

stress is kind of enjoyable moment

me, Doreen

a student

who scholarship

since secondary school

is lucky or fate

i really dun know

but i appreciate

but sadly

i have a brother

who dun have a matured thinking

all my scholarship were used to paid for his debt

i still rmb that times

i only 15years old

a form 3 student

use out all the scholarship money 

to help a useless brother

how come i can be so strong

and calm

to overcome this kind of problems

until now my brother still the same

college life isn't easy and peace

half work half study

everyone's praise me

i very independent

in fact i have no choice to be independent

i have no choice to leave my hometown so far

bcs my parents didnt even can afford my fees

i have no choice 

to stand like a man

to walk like a man

to talk like a man

21 years coming

most of them graduate d

but i still in college

a target

since 15 years old

cnt achieve anymore

a 1st bmw in my age of 21st

i have to let go the dream

and fight for my 2nd dream

the 1st billion in my life

before age 30

i know i can do it

because i believe

God always be my side

* im a free thinker *

when ppls ask about whats ur dream about

i will keep silent

bcs the dream will become a joke

for them

when ppls ask about why is design

i will keep silent too

because

that's my life

and i born to be

*recommended book*

law of attraction

is a nice thing

it make my world such

amazing

but once u apply wrong

u really get into shit

n i try to climb out from the shit

bcs of apply wrong attraction

my sister

very happy

because she how to apply the law of attraction

in her life

i feel no worry about her anymore

because she in my mind

just like a baby

keep crying finding mummy

i keep pray to God

make me stronger

make me as a fighter

to overcome all the problems appear in my life

i used to tell my parents

* if i wan to be bad,

i want to be the worst among everyone.

if not i wnt be a bad person.

if i wan to be good,

i want to be best of the best,

if not i wnt be a good girl.*

but

remember

That's no free meal in this reality world.

* black can be beautiful if u see it in different way...*

dismiss blog today

with

by: Doreen

就是他

他

对我来说

真的很重要

虽然

我们都只能这样

但是

我们都很珍惜对方

他

是我的巧克力

甜中带点苦

很欣慰

当我需要他时

他都会在我身边

也很谢谢他

因为他

让我学到坚持

这两个字

it is a surprise?

He finally reply me

I really got a shock

Mayb is too long didnt see his name appear on my screen

Suddenly hang on there

We jz have few msg talk

At least I know he is fine without me

This was a big mistake I never did

A wrong law of attraction

Attract whatever I hate

To be with me

I regret I didnt wait for him

I regret I didnt trust him

I regret whatever I did on that time

U never can replace

Dun misunderstand on me

I'm not the girl that u think

I'm not the girl want to play around

And flirt around

U're different

Bcs since the day I know u

U ard deep in my heart

I will let the fate play it's role

But I cnt promise I wnt love u more

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